Be careful when educating your Children - By Rabbi Pinto

Be careful when educating your Children:

Rabbis, teachers, and mentors that don’t know how to educate children and come from their homes bitter and angry and take it out on the kids are wounding their souls. This is a very dangerous thing to do and there is nothing worse than this. And when these teachers distribute Ritalin it causes their class to be half passed out. Every time there is even a minor problem, administering Ritalin is there solution and there is no danger greater than this.
Teachers and mentors who do this are then punished through their own children and then don’t know why they are being punished.

It is imperative to be extremely careful, to know that there is a difference between training and educating. These types of teachers act with the kids the way they would train their dogs until eventually the children will reach their breaking point. It is forbidden to “train” kids and lead them to reach this point. Rather, they need to be educated the right way. The minute a class is run by “training” their students and not by educating them, it will cause damage to future generations as well. A mentor needs to be a role model. He needs to know that he is like a king to his students who will lead them in the way of God with his wisdom. He needs to understand he is dealing with souls of God and act with them accordingly. A mentor that does the opposite and insults the children with his words will break them, essentially killing them at a young age.

Then, when the children grow older and go through life broken, sad, and not understanding the world, they carry the weight of the emotional scars that have been etched into their soul from when they were children. When teachers take their own problems at home with their wife, kids, and job and project them onto their students, even unconsciously, it will affect them. This is a very dangerous thing and parents should be very aware of how a teacher is treating their child. A child is like clay in the hands of an artist, if not handled properly it can ruin the soul of the child. There are so many kids who have been wounded, who will be responsible for them? As adults they may struggle with getting married.

By Rabbi Pinto.

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